Sometimes we tend to be so shy about our self we don't know how to face other people because we feel so intimated and we don't have enough confidence to show and tell them this "this is who we are". It's really sad to feel that way I myself did experience such situation. We always tend to hide and stay in our shelf rather than showing ourselves to everyone that's the reason why sometimes we miss a lot of things we let our chances pass by.
Its time for us to move out from our shelf let go of your fears and enjoy life while you still have it. Life is to short to let our chances pass.Here are some tips How to become a better you:
A) Develop your self confidence
Know your strength and weaknesses.Learn to develop your strength and overcome your weaknesses. Be real to everyone around you in that way they will know the real you and always keep in mind no body is perfect so you are , don't be ashamed of your yourself for who you are. Read some books that could help you develop your self.
B) Don't rely on other people but instead rely on yourself.
If you want to achieve something don't rely to other people for it's attainment. Always prepare yourself to expected events and whenever something happen that's beyond your control don't panic because you can't able to think properly but instead take it easy take a deep breath and think of what you should do. Learn to handle things on your own in short be independent in doing something that you want.
C) Create your own identity.
Don't cover up yourself and don't hide in your shelf. Show the world who you really are. there's nothing wrong about you so theirs no reason to ashamed.
D) Develop your oral communication
It doesn't mean that you should talk and talk a lot than usual but it's the other way around it means that you should learn how to communicate in the sense that both parties understand each other. You don't feel so shy when you talk.
E) Be healthy
Always maintain a healthy lifestyle although i myself admit it's hard to have a healthy lifestyle but if you want it you can have it. Eat healthy you should learn to Control yourself when regard to food intake you can eat the foods that you like but always set limitations . Have a exercise routine for you to be physically active. Being healthy is a crucial need for developing ourselves because sometimes it contribute a lot in developing confidence.
CHOICE
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